Wednesday 12 February 2014

kebahagiaan ...... di tangan kita

Merupakan dambaan semua insan 

Bagaimana cara menggapai kebahagiaan itu…?

A. Diantaranya.

Rasulullah shallallahu’alaihi wasallam bersabda,

أَرْبَعٌ مِنَ السَّعَادَةِ: اَلْمَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَةُ، وَالْمَسْكَنُ الْوَاسِعُ، وَالْجَارُ الصَّالِحُ، وَالْمَرْكَبُ الْهَنِيُّ

“Empat perkara termasuk diantara kebahagiaan: istri nan shalihah, tempat tinggal yang luas, tetangga yang shalih (baik), dan tunggangan (kendaraan) yang nyaman…” (Shahih, HR. Ibnu Hibban Al-Mawarid: 302, Silsilah ash-Shahihah: 282)

B. Yang Utama.

Tatkala Umar Ibnul Khaththab radhiyallahu ‘anhu bertanya kepada Rasulullah shallallahu’alaihi wasallam:

“Harta apa yang sebaiknya kita miliki…?”

Beliau shallallahu’alaihi wasallam menjawab,

لِيَتَّخِذْ أَحَدُكُمْ قَلْبًا شَاكِرًا وَلِسَاناً ذَاكِرًا وَزَوْجَةً مُؤْمِنَةً تُعِيْنُ أَحَدَكُمْ عَلَى أَمْرِ الآخِرَةِ

“Hendaklah seseorang dari kalian memiliki hati yang bersyukur, lisan yang senantiasa berdzikir dan istri mukminah yang menolongmu dalam perkara akhirat…” (HR. Ibnu Majah:1856, Shahih Ibnu Majah:1505 Al-Albani)

Bila sudah demikian, apalagi yang engkau risaukan…

Anak yang ceria…
Pasangan yang setia…
Bila masih kurang juga…

Berkacalah, mungkin jiwa ini ‘tak mampu lagi berbahagia…

@sahabatilmu

Semoga bermanfaat...

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Tuesday 11 February 2014

memaksa diri untuk berCHENTA dan terjatuh CHENTA dengan tajuk yang sangat best ini

Allahul musta'an

Sunday 9 February 2014

MW's IV


  • A thousand disappointments in the past cannot equal the power of one positive action right now. Go ahead & go for it.
  • 'Your life is a reflection of your thoughts. Think well.'
  • Smile like you have never cried. Fight like you know you will win. Laugh like you never grew up. Live like there is no tomorrow
  • As you start and end your day, be thankful for every little thing in your life. You will come to realize how blessed you truly are.
  • Take every chance you get in life, because some things only happen once.
  • Trying and Doing are two different things. When you try, you hope. When you do, you succeed.
  • Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations!
  • Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
  • Happiness is something that comes into our lives through doors we don't even remember leaving open.
  • Clouds come floating into my life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add color to my sunset sky.
  • Good things take time.
  • Treat people like mirrors & watch how you reflect in their eyes.
  • Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from negativity. 
  • You deserve to be with someone who can make you happy, not someone who will complicate your life.
  • People come and go in your life, and the right ones will always stay.
  • Some positive thoughts will make your life wonderful.
  • The harder the life, the stronger you'll become. The stronger you become, the easier the life will be. 
  • Friendship means understanding, not agreement. It means forgiveness, not forgetting. It means the memories last, even if contact is lost.
  • Never chase love, affection or attention - if it isn't given freely by another person, it isn't worth having.
  • In time, things will fall right in place. Keep the faith.
  • Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. 
  • Happy people have two things in common. They know exactly what they want and they feel they're moving toward getting it.
  • True friends are always there for you. Fake friends only appear when they want something from you. 
  • Laughter will always be the best medicine,
    Silence will always be the best revenge
    The Love & Friendship will always be all we need.
     
  • Think of all the beauty still left around you and be happy.
  • Happy moments: Praise God. Sad moments: Seek God. Painful moments: Trust God. Every moment: Thank God. 
  • GOD always has something for you, a key for every problem, a light for every shadow, a relief for every sorrow & a plan for every tomorrow.
  • Happiness is not something you can buy or acquire outside yourself. It is created from within based on your thoughts and actions.
  • Nothing is worth more than this moment. 
  • Believe, nothing is impossible.
  • Loving yourself invites others to love you, Respecting yourself invites people to respect you, It all start with you.
  • Appreciate what you have before it's gone.
  • Slow down and enjoy the simple pleasures in life.
  • Nothing goes to waste on the journey of life, both good & bad experiences, shape your mind & heart for what is to come.
  • You don't have to be perfect to be a good friend. You don't have to spend a lot of money for your friends. You just need to always be real. 
  • Never get too attached to anyone because attachments leads to expectations and expectations leads to disappointments.
  • Just because I'm being quiet doesn't mean I'm mad... sometimes I just don't feel like talking.
  • "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of places...one only needs to remember, to turn on the light".
  •  No matter how far you go in the wrong direction, there's always a chance to turn your life around . 
  • Love is nothing without action. Trust is nothing without proof. Regret is nothing without change.
  • Always respect other people's feelings.
  • The best way to be happy is to turn the negatives into positives, don't let anyone steal your joy, and be thankful for what you have.
  • "When Love is real, it finds a way."
  • You're going to lose some people on the way, but remember that not everyone is intended to go with you.
  • You are not loved when you are lovely, but when you are loved you are found to be lovely .
  • Life's not always perfect, but it's always what you make it. So make it count, make it memorable and never let anyone steal your happiness. 
  • It might take a year, it might take a day, but what's meant to be will always find its way.
  • Open your eyes and see the beauty around you. It’s everywhere…
  • Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong.
  • Accept what is, let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
  • Don't stress on the past, each day is a new beginning.
  • It is not joy that makes us grateful. It is gratitude that makes us joyful.
  • Appreciate everything, Regret nothing.
  • Live each day like it was your last. The past is gone and tomorrow isn't guaranteed. 
  • Some people come into your life as blessings, others come into your life as lessons.
  • Follow the trail to your DREAMS, not the path of others expectations.
  • Don't stay where you are tolerated go where you are celebrated!
  • Sometimes holding on is a sign of weakness. Sometimes letting go is a sign of strength. 
  • There's always a right time for everything. Sometimes you have to make it, sometimes you have to wait for it.
  • We are attracted by looks, but personality makes us stay.
  • Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending. 
  • "If you spend your whole life waiting for the storm, you'll never enjoy the sunshine."

MW's III


  • Life is all about making choices. Always do your best to make the right ones, and always do your best to learn from the wrong ones. 
  • Take the time to appreciate what you have.
  • The road not taken was not taken for a reason. Trust that you are right where you need to be. 
  • The past is behind, learn from it. The future is ahead, prepare for it. The present is here, live it.
  • When you finally let go of the past, something better comes along.
  • It is important to make people happy. But you have to start with yourself first.
  • You cannot be happy if you fill your mind with needless worries, keep your thoughts simple & peace & happiness will follow.
  • Follow your dreams. They know the way.
  • Keep calm and realize that you're one of a kind, and there is nobody like you.
  • Don't let the shadows of yesterday spoil the sunshine of tomorrow.
  • Life is truly reflection of what we allow ourselves to see & Be.
  • 'Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.' 
  • Never lose hope, never lose faith
  • When you believe, anything is possible. 
  • "To win the hearts of others you must lose some colors of your ego."
  • "Yeah we all shine on, like the moon, and the stars, and the sun."
  • Whenever you feel like your hope is gone, remember the beautiful moments that made it all worth living.
  • People will never understand the decision you make. Unless they have experience how hard it is to be in your place.
  • "How happy you are depends on how thankful you are."
  • Sometimes what you're looking for, comes when you're not looking at all.
  • Trials keep you strong. Sorrows keep you human. Failures keep you humble. And God, keeps you going!
  • Some desire is necessary to keep life in motion
  • Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.
  • Never live in the past, but always learn from it. 
  • You don't need anybody that doesn't need you. Focus on those who truly appreciate you and get rid of those who don't.
  • 'There is no path to happiness: happiness is the path.'
  • 'Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.' 
  • Sometimes it's the smallest decisions that can change your life forever.
  • Remember the good times, be strong during the difficult times, love always, laugh often, and thank God every day. 
  • " Learning from your own mistakes is wise, but learning from other people's mistakes is quicker."
  • Make your smile change the world. Don't let the world change your smile.
  • Life always offers you a second chance. It's called tomorrow.
  • Beauty isn't about having a pretty face. It's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, and a pretty soul. 
  • Live simply. Dream big. Be grateful. Give love. Laugh lots.
  • Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.
  • Give without remembering and always receive without forgetting.
  • When you look back you will see why things happened as they did, for nothing happens without reason on the journey of life.
  • Life is too deep for words, so don't try to describe it, just live it. 
  • The roughest road often leads to the top.
  • Today is a perfect day for a new beginning. 
  • Things Change. Feelings Change. People Change. Life Changes. 
  • Pain makes you stronger. Fear makes you braver. Heartbreak makes you wiser.
  • A friend is someone who understand your past, believes in your future, and accepts you today just the way you are.
  • Life is short so live it to the fullest. Give without looking for anything in return, forgive without being asked, and love with no regrets.
  • Faith makes all things possible. Hope makes all things work. Love makes all things beautiful. May you have all of the three. 
  • There is always, always, always something to be thankful for.
  • " Your journey will be much lighter and easier if you don't carry your past with you."
  • Nothing is ever wrong. We learn from every step we take. Whatever you did today was the way it was meant to be. Be proud of you.
  • Make peace with your past, enjoy your present, and hope for your future.
  • Live more, complain less. More smiles, less stress. Less hate, more blessed.
  • Sometimes, we need to be hurt in order to grow. We must lose in order to gain. Sometimes, some lessons are learned best through pain.
  • You can't always sit in your corner of the forest and wait for people to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes
  • Looking back, makes you smart. Looking forward, makes you mature. Looking down, makes you wise. Looking UP, makes you strong. 
  • Remember that every path walked is walked for a reason, and every day is full of blessings no matter how BIG or small.
  • I may not always have the best things in life, but I ALWAYS have the blessed things in life.
  • Believe in yourself and there will come a day when others will have no choice but to believe with you.
  • Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.
  • God, thank you for today, yesterday, and tomorrow. My family, my joys, my sorrows. For all that has made me stronger. 
  • Never stop trying. Never stop believing. Never give up. Your day will come. 
  • Keep Calm And Have a dream & follow it. Have a plan and stick to it. Have a goal and achieve it. 
  • Enjoy every moment you have. Because in life, there are no rewinds, only flashbacks. Make sure it's all worth it. 
  • Accept your past with no regrets, handle your present with confidence, and face your future with no fear.
  • " Life is about trusting our feelings, taking chances finding happiness, appreciating the memories and learning from the past."
  • Be real, be yourself, be unique, be true, be honest, be humble, be happy.

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