October 8, 2011 at 12:18pm
A: Allaah. Marry for the sake of Allaah swt
A: Aisha. Remember the love story of Rasulullaah (SAW) and Aisha (RA). The Prophet (SAW) said to his companions that Aisha (RA) was the most beloved to him.
A: Abstinence. The Prophet (SAW) encouraged the youth to get married if they have the means and advised those who cannot afford to fast. Protect yourself from zinaa.\
A: Abortion. It is haraam, haraam, haraam to conduct abortion.!!!
However, it is allowed only for this 2 situation:
~after 4 month~ 1) if its harm the mother's life-(life of the mother at risk), 2) if the child severely disform.
~before 4month~ its stil Haram unless if the women was raped. Killing daughters is a Pre-Islamic Arabia custom.
A: Age. Its only a number. Age is not a matter of importance as far as they are both mature. The husband does not have to be elder. Rasulullaah (SAW) was younger than Khadija (RA).
A: Arranged Marriage. Arranged Marriage is allowed but it should not be forced.
B: Bad Breath and Body Odor ;-) Beautifying oneself for one's spouse. Rasulullaah (SAW) used the miswak when he entered his house. Rasulullaah (SAW) has the perfume of musk.
C: Contraception. Temporary contraception is allowed with mutual agreement. Permanent Contraception is allowed only if the wife's health is at risk.
C: Conditions. Condition is valid if it is of benefit for both parties. It is valid for the wife to put the condition of the husband not getting married again as she is not preventing the husband from doing something waajib ;-)
D: Daughters. Whoever has three daughters and look after them properly and marry them, he will have Jannah. a daughter sometimes equal to 10 sons.
D: Dowry. There is more barakah in a marriage where the Dowry is easy.
D: Duties. We should concentrate more on our duties than our rights. Allaah will question us about our duties and not rights.
E: Ego. Ego is the dajjal of marriage ;-) None wants to see through the eyes of the other. Do not argue to outdo each other.
F: Fatherhood; with marriage its comes with responsibility..get prepared!
F: Foot massage. Its really important (= for both, whether it is for wife to husband @ husband to wife.
G: Generous. Be generous guy, it will lower the level of the husband if he is stingy..
H: Head massage. you will know how important it is after you get marry ;D
I: In-law. Build a good relationship with them & respect them as u want your spouse respect your own parents.
J: Janabah. Must know, its a basic knowledge! The state of janabah: 1) wet dream- its required Ghusl (mandi wajib). 2) intimacy between husband & wife - even without ejaculation- its WAJIB for them to make Ghusl.
K: Kindness. Be kind...
K: Kissing. Expression of Love<.>.</.>
L: Love. love each other for d sake of Allah
M: Money. one of the biggest problem @ cause to divorce. Manage it well...
M: Massage. Do massage, massage, massage...!!!
N: Nagging..wife, stop nagging too much! it will cause headache to your husband ;D
O: Obedience. its the key to the wife to enter Jannah as long as no contradict to adDeen...
P: Patience. especially during period (menstrual, pregnancy).
P: Polygamy....Be just!..its different man, between being just and equal.make sure, you being Just to your wives!
P: Power game..
P: Piety. increase your level of piety through your marriage.
Q: Quiet time. (e.g: no Facebook, i-pad, computer in your bedroom) its your quality time, no interruption!
R: Respect. (both side)
S: Secret. Can you keep a secret..?? no discussion, chit-chat your privacy thing with your family & especially your bestfriend. Be Amanah!
S: Security. Make yourself, your family feel safe & secure at home.
S: Sincerity.
T: Trust. build trust in your relationship.
T: Temptation. Wife, beware with the temptation that your husband facing outside (worplace). Know how to beautify, grooming yourself (",
U: Understanding, (Man from Mars, Women from Venus- both are from different planet dude, try to understand it (;
U: Unity.
U: Unisex. Need to be a real man..!
V: Vission. know your vission in your purpose of marriage.
V: Violent. No violent to your own spouse, be gentle..!
W: White lies. it is permissible to use it to make the suluh (reconcile the relationship), however you have to control it because its will easily be abusing to your own spouse.
X: X-ray.
X: 3 X- No pornography, no.......
Y: Young. Nobody getting young, you are getting old. Accept it (=
Z: Zinah. (beautifiction).
: zzzzzzzzzzz.........
P/s: anyone? please add if there s any missing information ^_^
For those who already married- MAy Allah grant you with Love, Mercy, Tranquility in your marriage& may this will be 1 of the way that will make you enter His Jannah (=
For those who still looking ", - May Allah grant us with d best spouse, companionship in this world n hereafter & make us all enter His Jannah...;D
Credit to Sheikh Bilal Ismail- May Allah bless him&as well as his family immensely(for their patience) & increase his knowledge & grant him His Jannatul Firdaus...May Allah reunite us in His Jannah al-A'la..Alhamdulillah we learned a lot from you (=
A: Aisha. Remember the love story of Rasulullaah (SAW) and Aisha (RA). The Prophet (SAW) said to his companions that Aisha (RA) was the most beloved to him.
A: Abstinence. The Prophet (SAW) encouraged the youth to get married if they have the means and advised those who cannot afford to fast. Protect yourself from zinaa.\
A: Abortion. It is haraam, haraam, haraam to conduct abortion.!!!
However, it is allowed only for this 2 situation:
~after 4 month~ 1) if its harm the mother's life-(life of the mother at risk), 2) if the child severely disform.
~before 4month~ its stil Haram unless if the women was raped. Killing daughters is a Pre-Islamic Arabia custom.
A: Age. Its only a number. Age is not a matter of importance as far as they are both mature. The husband does not have to be elder. Rasulullaah (SAW) was younger than Khadija (RA).
A: Arranged Marriage. Arranged Marriage is allowed but it should not be forced.
B: Bad Breath and Body Odor ;-) Beautifying oneself for one's spouse. Rasulullaah (SAW) used the miswak when he entered his house. Rasulullaah (SAW) has the perfume of musk.
C: Contraception. Temporary contraception is allowed with mutual agreement. Permanent Contraception is allowed only if the wife's health is at risk.
C: Conditions. Condition is valid if it is of benefit for both parties. It is valid for the wife to put the condition of the husband not getting married again as she is not preventing the husband from doing something waajib ;-)
D: Daughters. Whoever has three daughters and look after them properly and marry them, he will have Jannah. a daughter sometimes equal to 10 sons.
D: Dowry. There is more barakah in a marriage where the Dowry is easy.
D: Duties. We should concentrate more on our duties than our rights. Allaah will question us about our duties and not rights.
E: Ego. Ego is the dajjal of marriage ;-) None wants to see through the eyes of the other. Do not argue to outdo each other.
F: Fatherhood; with marriage its comes with responsibility..get prepared!
F: Foot massage. Its really important (= for both, whether it is for wife to husband @ husband to wife.
G: Generous. Be generous guy, it will lower the level of the husband if he is stingy..
H: Head massage. you will know how important it is after you get marry ;D
I: In-law. Build a good relationship with them & respect them as u want your spouse respect your own parents.
J: Janabah. Must know, its a basic knowledge! The state of janabah: 1) wet dream- its required Ghusl (mandi wajib). 2) intimacy between husband & wife - even without ejaculation- its WAJIB for them to make Ghusl.
K: Kindness. Be kind...
K: Kissing. Expression of Love<.>.</.>
L: Love. love each other for d sake of Allah
M: Money. one of the biggest problem @ cause to divorce. Manage it well...
M: Massage. Do massage, massage, massage...!!!
N: Nagging..wife, stop nagging too much! it will cause headache to your husband ;D
O: Obedience. its the key to the wife to enter Jannah as long as no contradict to adDeen...
P: Patience. especially during period (menstrual, pregnancy).
P: Polygamy....Be just!..its different man, between being just and equal.make sure, you being Just to your wives!
P: Power game..
P: Piety. increase your level of piety through your marriage.
Q: Quiet time. (e.g: no Facebook, i-pad, computer in your bedroom) its your quality time, no interruption!
R: Respect. (both side)
S: Secret. Can you keep a secret..?? no discussion, chit-chat your privacy thing with your family & especially your bestfriend. Be Amanah!
S: Security. Make yourself, your family feel safe & secure at home.
S: Sincerity.
T: Trust. build trust in your relationship.
T: Temptation. Wife, beware with the temptation that your husband facing outside (worplace). Know how to beautify, grooming yourself (",
U: Understanding, (Man from Mars, Women from Venus- both are from different planet dude, try to understand it (;
U: Unity.
U: Unisex. Need to be a real man..!
V: Vission. know your vission in your purpose of marriage.
V: Violent. No violent to your own spouse, be gentle..!
W: White lies. it is permissible to use it to make the suluh (reconcile the relationship), however you have to control it because its will easily be abusing to your own spouse.
X: X-ray.
X: 3 X- No pornography, no.......
Y: Young. Nobody getting young, you are getting old. Accept it (=
Z: Zinah. (beautifiction).
: zzzzzzzzzzz.........
P/s: anyone? please add if there s any missing information ^_^
For those who already married- MAy Allah grant you with Love, Mercy, Tranquility in your marriage& may this will be 1 of the way that will make you enter His Jannah (=
For those who still looking ", - May Allah grant us with d best spouse, companionship in this world n hereafter & make us all enter His Jannah...;D
ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا وذرياتنا قرة أعين وجعلنا للمتقين إماما
Credit to Sheikh Bilal Ismail- May Allah bless him&as well as his family immensely(for their patience) & increase his knowledge & grant him His Jannatul Firdaus...May Allah reunite us in His Jannah al-A'la..Alhamdulillah we learned a lot from you (=
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